What Is Bumble? Bumble FAQ, How To Use Bumble

How To Use Bumble, What Is Bumble?

Bumble is a popular dating app and ever since its IPO, it has received a lot of interest from people who see this as an opportunity to be a different type of dating app (read more about my most recommended dating apps here).

Bumble app has largely positioned itself as a woman-first dating app and has enacted more rules around who can message first, bans on certain types of photos, and guidelines around inactive accounts with the hope of building trust and establishing a good reputation.

It has upended traditional societal norms around who should message first on dating sites and created an environment that allows women to control which men can message them but there has been some unintended consequences along the way.

A shift in user behavior has resulted in men swiping more often (relying on a volume approach strategy) and women experiencing low effort, low response rates, ghosting, and generally bad etiquette around messaging, communication skills and date planning.

Below is an overview of the app with clarification on intentions, interpretations, etiquette, explanations, how to use Bumble (how does Bumble work), how to use Bumble web (Bumble desktop mode), Bumble location and how to navigate the app, so you don’t waste your time.

Related read: Bumble Profile Template  |  Bumble Etiquette  |  Bumble Profile Tips

For Bumble Bantr Live FAQ’s, keep scrolling down.

How Does Bumble Work? 24 Hour Rule Bumble

The app can be a bit confusing for those that are used to using sites like Tinder or Match so here are some answers to some of the most frequently asked questions on Bumble. For my review on Bumble app, check out this post.

Bumble is different in that women control who can message them. A match is created when two individuals like each other, and women are forced to send the first messages in order for the guy to contact them. Women have 24 hours to send a message before a match expires.

Men have 24 hours to respond otherwise the match expires. On the free version, one cannot see who liked them (part of the paid version of the app). Once each user send a message, the 24 hour time is gone and users are not forced to reply in a certain timeframe.

Related read: Bumble Premium Pros & Cons

Which Way Do You Swipe On Bumble?  What Do Likes Mean On Bumble? 

If you like the person, you swipe right. If you want to pass on the person, you swipe left. If you are not sure, close the app, wait a few seconds and open it up again. If the same person shows up, try adjusting your filters.

Not all likes are done purposefully. Not all likes mean someone wants to go on a date with you. A like just means that the person finds you interesting and/or attractive and wants to learn more about you.

Do Girls Swipe First On Bumble? 

They can, but they don’t have to. Anyone can swipe right on anyone at anytime when their profile appears in the queue. They can choose to swipe first but they may or may not know if a guy has seen their profile, likes them etc. Women typically have to message first to start conversations after matching but guys can now send compliments with likes. Of course, you don’t have to message or like at all if you put your IG in your bio.

What Are Bumble Matches? Bumble Match Meaning

Matches on Bumble are when two people flick their finger and swipe right on each other. That is all it means. It doesn’t mean they read your profile, saw all your photos, read your bio or even swiped right intentionally. It doesn’t mean they want to chat, it doesn’t mean they want to go on a date, doesn’t mean they want a relationship and certainly doesn’t mean they respect your preferences.

A match means nothing without effort, messaging, responsiveness etc. All a match means is that someone may want to learn more about you but it could also mean they want to sleep with you, scam you, accidentally swiped right on you, or find a penpal. That’s why these are called introduction apps – dating apps are not ordering apps.

Given how polished some profiles are, how heavily edited some images are and how often people don’t message/reply, it’s pretty normal to ask yourself if Bumble likes are real.

Are Bumble Likes Real?

Bumble likes are real in that they were sent by someone but if they are genuine, that is a whole other topic of discussion.

Related read: Why don’t Bumble matches message me?

I’m On Bumble, If I See A Profile, Does That Mean They Saw Mine?

No, you can’t assume anything. It’s possible but not guaranteed nor likely. It’s even possible that a guy that liked your profile didn’t even look at your profile (some guys swipe right on everyone!).

Related read: Online Dating 101

What Is A Good First Question To Ask On Bumble?

Definitely do not write how is your day, week, evening, quarantine, weekend, etc. This is the most unoriginal, lazy question. Read the person’s profile, look at their questions. If they have no conversation starters, why did you swipe right on them?

Having a good profile and photos can be wasted if your first message to a guy is lazy and lacks effort.

Related read: He’s Just Not That Into You

What Are Admirers On Bumble? Matches vs Admirers On Bumble

These users have swiped to the right on your profile but you haven’t swiped to the left or right on them yet. Bumble Premium subscribers can see all admirers in their beeline.

Admirers may not appear in your swipe deck because your filters are too strict. Loosen them up to see more admirers.

Bumble Photo Verification, What Does Blue Check Mean? 

The photo verification process (although not perfect or exhaustive) does greatly reduce the number of fake accounts on the app.

The user experience from a female perspective can greatly reduce the number of unwanted messages a woman can receive by giving her the ability to control who can message her.

Do not mistake verified accounts for exhaustive background checks. Nothing can replace patience, quality time and good judgment.

How Many Swipes Do You Get On Bumble? Bumble Swipe Limit?

There is not a specific amount of profiles. If you begin to swipe too much, too quickly and/or have too strict criteria selected, you will run out soon. Bumble will display the screen “Bumble You’ve Hit The End Of The Line.” It can be 20-30, sometimes up to 50.

Bumble is a bit more liberal with new profiles but it will dwindle over time despite profiles repeating. Other sites claim unlimited swipes, but that is untrue.

Rather than swipe recklessly and too much, contain yourself. Chances are you are sabotaging your profile with bad prompts, photos or bio. You only get one chance to make a first impression, so slow down, see what works and iterate.

Related read: Bumble Swipe Limit, Reset Info

What Does The Star Mean On Bumble?

It means super swipe.

Out of Likes On Bumble, When Do You Get More Likes On Bumble?

Bumble likes are limited. Once you run out, you have to wait to get more.

Related read: Bumble Like Limits, How Many?

How Often Do You Get Bumble Likes? Average Number Of Likes On Bumble For A Girl

That will depend on your age, location, appearance, height, education, hobbies, photos, facial expressions and gender etc. With that said, it’s possible to get less likes on Bumble with Incognito mode as a guy since women use this feature and can’t see you.

Women are not that eager to send likes first themselves (wait to see who likes them) so you have to be proactive if you want to see results.

Related read: Online Dating As A Man  |  Online Dating As A Woman

How Much Does Bumble Cost? Is Bumble Free To Message? 

The basic aspects of the app are free, but it costs extra for certain bells and whistles outlined below. You can send messages on Bumble for free but only after matches are established.

Do You Have To Pay For Bumble?

I typically do not recommend paying for these upgrades unless you have specific deal-breakers or are urgent in meeting someone. It’s free to message but as a guy you have to wait to get messaged first unless a woman lists her IG account in which you can message her there first.

Bumble 14 Day Free Trial Offer, How To Get Bumble Free Trial Premium?

During the viewing of profiles, you will get the opportunity to get a free 14 days trial. It will recirculate more than one, and my advice is to not activate until you have a good profile and photos to get the most out of it.

In fact, I advise not to even create a profile until you have a good profile, otherwise you will waste first impressions. How to get it for free? Find a sponsor to buy it for you.

For more info on Bumble Premium, read this.

Bumble Shake aka Backtrack, Accidental Left Swipe, Rewind

If you accidentally left-swipe on someone, you can shake your phone like a shake weight to undo it. You have a limited amount (usually three) so proceed with caution.

UPDATE: Bumble changed their backtrack feature. Instead of shaking the phone, one has to click the undo arrow in the top left of the screen. Backtrack is now also apart of Bumble Boost which is a paid feature.

It’s up to you to figure out the context of the like and if it is worth getting to know the other person in more detail.

Should You Use Reactions To Photos On Bumble? Bumble Emoji Reactions

These emojis allow users to react to a profile prompt or photo on a profile. It allows people to specifically react rather than send a generic like. Yes, reactions can be effective unless you comment on things you shouldn’t comment on.

Emojis are not available to all users, fyi.

What is the Bumble Match Queue? 

Match queue Bumble is the order in which profiles are served up to users on the app. It is based on algorithms, location, preferences and demographics. Once someone likes you you will appear in their queue.

The more picky you are the fewer profiles will be shown. To unlock Bumble Queue and see who likes you, you will need to subscribe to Bumble Boost. Order is based on showing you profiles that will set to expire first.

Bumble Algorithm, How Does Bumble Decide Who To Show You? 

Similar to Hinge, Bumble boosts new profiles and shows them to many people early on to get an idea for desirability. After that initial period, the amount of times your profile is shown reduces, goes back to normal (which is why you might see fewer likes after a few days, weeks).

Bumble tends to show travelers in town and those using travel mode from a distance first to artificially inflate user counts and give people a false sense of hope.

Is the Bumble Boost Settlement Legit? Bumble Discrimination Lawsuit, Class Action Lawsuit

Bumble Boost Settlement / Class Action Lawsuit Info: https://www.bumbleboostsettlement.com/

What is Bumble Beeline? Is Bumble Beeline Accurate? Beeline vs Admirers

The beeline is a feature that Bumble has that allows you to view who has already liked you (but you have not matched with yet). The profiles are hidden until you happen to right swipe on them at which point they will appear in your match queue.

Over time, those in the Bumble Beeline may disappear (delete profile, hide profile etc.). Similarly, many of those in your beeline may be from out of town, undesirable age range etc. Paid subscribers can apply filters to users in the beeline. Beeline visibility requires a subscription to Bumble Boost (legacy users).

If you are in Australia, New Zealand, USA, Canada, Ireland, France, Germany, or the UK, the Beeline will only be available in the Bumble Premium subscription. Beeline is what Bumble use to refer to as Admirers.

How To See Who Liked You On Bumble? Can’t See Beeline, Unlock Bumble Beeline

If you don’t want to wait to see who has liked you already, you can pay. Many people only like people in this queue which can be efficient for some folks but you will unlikely match with people utilizing the same strategy.

You can unblur the profiles in your beeline by swiping right on profiles until you happen to swipe right on the person who happened to swipe right on you already or you can pay for Bumble premium services to see your Beeline on Bumble.

How Do You Ask Questions On Bumble? What Should I Message On Bumble? What To Say?

For men, you have to match first with women and wait for women to message you first. For women, you have to wait until a match is established and then you have 24 hours to message a match. Read this guide on first messages and opening lines on Bumble.

Related read: Questions To Ask Him/Her On Bumble

Is Extending On Bumble Creepy? Is Extending On Bumble Desperate?

I wouldn’t say it’s creepy but I would not use it. If someone is interested, they should let you know.

Often times people are on the fence or not in a good place themselves or are busy with other people. Focus on those that match your effort, responsiveness.

Related read: Creepy Behavior On Bumble

Bumble Shows Me People Outside My Area

People move around. People also pay to change their location. People use the apps while traveling for work or on vacation. Keep reading below to find out why Bumble shows you people outside your area.

What is Bumble Travel Mode? 

It is a premium feature that allows users to change their location up to 7 days for 5 coins (in house currency).

Should You Use Bumble Travel Mode? 

Travel mode on a profile can feel a bit tacky and suggest you are looking either to hookup up while traveling, looking for a casual fwb travel guide, are misrepresenting where you live or you are indifferent about staying put where you live currently. It’s a red flag for many and should be turned off immediately.

To turn off Bumble Travel Mode, select settings, travel button (blue) and set ‘current location’.

Related read: Bumble Travel Mode

Does Bumble Show Inactive Users? Profiles?

Per last update, “Anyone you see on Bumble has been active in the last 30 days,” Emily Wright, Bumble’s Associate Director of Global PR told Elite Daily (January 2019.

“We also recently launched Snooze, which is a new feature that allows users to pause their activity on Bumble, including options for prioritizing mental well-being, digital detox, or vacationing.”

How Do You Know If Your Bumble Matches Are Online?

Bumble added a green dot to profiles to let you know when matches are online.

Does Bumble Hide Matches?

No, you have to understand how Bumble works. Once matches are outside your preferences/deal-breakers, they are hidden. Most likely scenarios are those that were in your area when you swiped/matched but no longer are around. This is coming if you or the other person was traveling while swiping or using Travel Mode.

What is Bumble Snooze Notifications? Does Bumble Notify When You Return? 

You can choose length, reason for staying away for matches if you choose. This feature is called Prioritize Yourself on Bumble.

It is a pause feature that allows users to temporarily hide their profile and pause the app from showing profile to new people. 

Once you un-snooze, your matches will be notified that you are back online with a message similar to ‘X is no longer away, welcome them back.’

What Does Bumble Deleted Member Means? Bumble Deleted Account

Whenever someone deletes their profile and uninstalls the app you will see a message near the top of the conversation. There is no way to message the person anymore. It’s likely they met someone else, got tired of the app, or is taking a pause. It could also mean the user was banned from the app.

Does Bumble Show Read Receipts?

No, there is no read receipt on the Bumble app. Read receipts are not necessary on Bumble or other dating apps. Stop being insecure and focus on those that do reply to you. That said, you can tell if someone has read your message if they reply to your message and show they read it – and that is all you need.  Ignore people that don’t respond and focus on those that do, simple.

What is the Average Age On Bumble?

Dating App Usage and Median Age

Bumble Desktop Mode aka Bumble Web, How Can I Download Bumble For PC

Older dating sites like Match.com and OkCupid were web based dating sites first when they first launched but newer apps like Hinge and Coffee Meets Bagel are mobile app only dating sites. The app is free to download but there are some costs for additional features, filters etc.

Bumble took an unusual step to create a desktop version of the app which is a great idea if you want to get off the small screen and review details and photos more carefully. There is nothing to download for web browsing – just need to login.

Bumble Online Sign-In: https://bumble.com/app (Bumble Web)

Bumble Apple Download  |  Bumble Google/Android Download

Bumble Incognito Mode Not Working? Bumble Incognito Mode No Matches

It’s likely because you have not activated yet. Available through Bumble Premium.

If you are not getting matches, check this out for ways to troubleshoot it. Yes, men can if they pay for the service on Bumble. Unfortunately, this includes married men too. If you are a woman and you use Incognito mode, you have to send guys like first otherwise they will not see you.

Related read: Biggest Lies Told On Dating Apps

Does Bumble Show Profiles That Have Already Left Swiped Or Rejected You? Repeat Profiles?

Yes, Bumble does show profiles of people that have left-swiped on you in case users change their mind. Similarly, Bumble shows profiles you have left-swiped on in case you change your mind or accidentally left-swiped on.

With that said, popular people don’t stay on the app long nor are they likely to see all likes, matches or even reply to matches. Bumble shows you profiles that rejected you so don’t read too much into this.

Can You See How Many Times Someone Has Viewed Your Profile On Bumble? 

No, Bumble does not display view counts to users and thus no, you cannot see how many times someone has viewed your Bumble profile unfortunately. That said, does it matter? Why do you need this information? Go about your life and do you instead of worrying about strangers on the internet that you will likely never meet anyways?

Are There Fake Profiles On Bumble?

There are very few fake profiles on Bumble as opposed to Hinge and definitely Tinder. The verification process weeds out a lot of fake people but that doesn’t mean it’s perfect nor does it mean people lie on their profile.

How To Change Age On Bumble?

Changing your age on Bumble is not possible once you set it. Too many people lie about their age on the site and blame it on the app or Facebook. This is not an accident.

People purposefully lie about their age to get more matches or want to lower their age so they can improve performance.

You will have to contact Bumble to set your age correctly and admit you lied or want to lie about your age. Most people who lie do it because of insecurity with themselves.

Regardless of the excuse they give on the app, view it as a red flag and skip over them. Don’t fall for their attempt to be cute and mislead you – what else are they lying about? 

How To Unblock Someone On Bumble

Once you block someone, you can’t unblock them.

Bumble New Here Badge – How Long Does Bumble Say New Here

This is a badge displayed on new user accounts for about 14 days. It might feel longer than that if a user continually creates a new profile. See profile reset here.

Does Bumble Show Most Attractive First? How Does The Bumble Algorithm Work?

Sometimes, but it depends on how long you are on the app and your location with respect to others on the app. New users typically see a lot of attractive people when they first join the app.

Lots of moving parts so newer, hotter people who just moved within your radius might show up later in the queue if you have the app open long enough.

Does Bumble Work For Guys? Bumble Review For Guys

Yes, it’s a great app but it can be superficial. Those that usually don’t like it are those that are swiping outside their league, lack self-awareness, have bad profiles, have lifestyle choices different from those they seek, live in remote areas, or lack approachability, timing and/or patience.

Bumble Political Filters, Bumble Remove Political Filters

This was done so that people would not try to out others there for the protests, rioting in DC. More on that here.

Bumble Filters (Gone, Removed, Advanced, Free & More),

Bumble allows anyone to use the main filters which include age, gender and distance. Beyond that, the advanced filters are limited to 2 free ones and beyond that, additional filters require a premium account.

Advanced filters include height, verified profiles, exercise, education, drinking status, smoking status, cannabis status, date intentions, want or have kids, star sign, politics and religion.

Most of these are not exhaustive given that many people don’t fill out all these items leaving hidden gems out of your view if you select them.

Related read: Full Set Of Bumble Filters

Does Bumble Give Notifications? Bumble Notifications Not Working

To change notifications, select the user profile icon at the bottom left, select the gear icon to open settings and then scroll down and tap notification settings. Sometimes there are errors with settings as some people unmatch instantly after getting the matching but before you open the app.