Prompts, Answers, Questions, Bumble Boost, Premium Features, How Does Bumble Work? Bumble vs. Tinder? Is Bumble Free? Deleted Member & Video, Voice Calls.
Bumble is one of the most popular dating apps on the market today primarily for the way it markets itself as being pro-women and women-first dating app. Traditionally, women have had poor experiences on dating apps because of unwanted messages, bombarded by low-quality men and being catfished by users. Bumble positions itself to reduce the side effects of traditional dating apps like Tinder to improve the user experience for women as well as men.
Bumble, the Anti-Tinder
Bumble is in a position to radically change the way people view and use dating apps – it is one of the top apps I (as an online dating photographer and consultant) recommend to clients more than any other. The photo verification process (although not perfect or exhaustive) does greatly reduce the number of fake accounts on the app. The user experience from a female perspective can greatly reduce the number of unwanted messages a woman can receive by giving her the ability to control who can message her.
These are subtle but yet powerful tweaks to traditional dating apps that are riddled in confusion (winks vs. messages vs. favorites — I am looking at you Match) or likes vs. super-likes and ability to lie about your location (shameless Tinder).
With that said, there are two glaring fundamental drawbacks to the app that it has failed to address: 24-hour response window and short, dull conversation starters. The first is a design feature whereas the latter is a user error. (I covered a third aspect in Super Swipes in another post here).
Is Bumble Free? How much does Bumble cost per month? Is it free to message?
The basic aspects of the app are free but it costs extra for certain bells and whistles outlined below. I typically do not recommend paying for these upgrades unless you have specific deal-breakers or are urgent in meeting someone. It’s free to message but as a guy you have to wait to get messaged first.
Bumble 14 Day Free Trial Offer
During the viewing of profiles, you will get the opportunity to get a free 14 days trial. It will recirculate more than one and my advice is to not activate until you have a good profile and photos to get the most out of it. In fact, I advise not to even create a profile until you have a good profile otherwise you will waste first impressions.
How Does Bumble Work? How Does Bumble Algorithm Work?
People set up a profile on hinge (photos, bios, demographics) and swipe right on profiles (served up via the Bumble Match Queue) they are interested in and left on ones they are not interested in. If a mutal right swipe is made, both users will be notified and the woman will have 24 hours to send an introductory message. Men cannot message first but can extend windows for response through upgrades.
Bumble, like many other apps aims to hook new users by displaying attractive profiles and over time regressing to the mean. Once hooked, users are tempted to upgrade to allow for more profiles to be viewed before running out. Not all profiles are shows to users and certain filters are available for premium accounts.
Bumble takes into consideration your demographics and displays somewhat relative profiles based on preferences and your attractiveness. The more desirable you are the more you will be shown to others. This is not to mean that you need to be a model to do well on Bumble but self-sabotage efforts can definitely limit your ability to be successful.
Bumble Shake aka Backtrack, Accidental Left Swipe, Rewind
If you accidentally left-swipe on someone you can shake your phone like a shake weight to undo it. You have a limited amount so proceed with caution.
What is the Bumble Match Queue?
It is the order in which profiles are served up to users on the app. It is based on algorithms, location, preferences and demographics. Once someone likes you you will appear in their queue. The more picky you are the fewer profiles will be shown.
Bumble 24-Hour Window + Bumble One Time (Daily) Extend
The 24-hour is rather a short window for anyone to be bound by. Just as I predicted back in 2014 that HotelTonight would need to extend their booking window (they did 2 months after I interviewed with them), Bumble needs to extend the response window to at least 72 hours. Hotel rooms are interchangeable, people are not. Although the ability to extend the response window is available as a paid product, it is not always effective or ideal solution. Bumble either forces women respond instantly to matches, pay to extend windows to initiate conversations or wait for men to extend windows by paying a fee. These options sort of go against Bumble’s motto of putting women in control.
I don’t recommend clients log into dating apps all the time – it is exhausting and mentally and emotionally draining. I typically recommend no more than 20 minutes a day, 3 times a week. This limit encourages people to not abandon the offline approaches to meeting people organically.
Pro-Tip: Free users get one daily extend so use this wisely with matches. To do this, open an expiring match and select ‘Extend This Match’. Use it toward the 23rd hour as some people wait to the last minute to message matches.
Introductory Messages & Responses
I get it, men are awful with introductory messages — the number of hi, hey, what’s up, yo etc. Is mind-boggling and also sad in today’s society. Women have been tormented and flustered with these messages for years and when Bumble first came out I figured more women would take this opportunity to take control and put more effort into their first messages to matches. Unfortunately this is not always the case.
In an effort to send a quick message to avoid the 24-hour window closing, women are more likely to use such messages to connect with men. These messages although better than being shut out are super anti-climatic and given the better female to male ratios on Bumble vs other dating apps, men are more likely to move on to the next match that seems more excited and enthusiastic.
The SuperSwipe features allows users to see you like them before matching or swiping on you. I get why this exists but it preys on people’s insecurities. Love, flirting, dating etc. requires a leap of faith – it should require some vulnerability. These days people want assurances and want to minimize rejection but I strongly suggest paying for such a feature – do you only want to match with someone because he she made a first move? Would that person have swiped right on you if you didn’t indicate as such? With Bumble SuperSwipe, you will never know.
How To Improve Bumble
My recommendation? Adopt a minimum character requirement for initial messages. If not a hard block, at least suggest improving messages before allowing sending. I get that me have gotten away with flooding inboxes of women for years but if Bumble truly wants to improve the user experience for all sides and do its part to keep chivalry alive, it has the opportunity to do that.
It must also de-prioritize profiles that don’t read messages or don’t reject messages. Providing some closure is preferred by all even if it is a generic reason and if your counterargument is that it is too much additional effort to follow up on matches, you are likely matching way too much and need to be more selective.
What is Bumble Boost? How much does Bumble Boost cost?
Bumble imitated Tinder’s subscription product with the Bumble Boost product. It allows one to see who has right-swiped you, allows you to extended matches by 24 hours and rematch with expired matches. I initially viewed Bumble as a grown up version of Tinder but features like ‘see who has right-swiped you’ is preying on psychological tendencies of users.
I understand Bumble needs to monetize but limiting the number of profiles shown or limiting number of active matches at the free level would not only create a better user experience that focuses on quality over quantity but allow for paid features that are in line with encouraging reasonable, mature behavior.
Anyone that does not get back to you at a reasonable time perhaps is not worth your time – no need or the 24-hour match extension. Creating excuses for others is not necessary at this part of the courting stage. Same thing goes for the rematching with expired matches. Dating requires you to be present, engaged if you are serious about it. By interacting in the parameters of the free version of the app, there is no need to pay for the premium features here.
Bumble has done so much to advance the quality of users on its platform and significantly improve the user experience that these last few steps to bridge the gap would definitely further distance themselves from the rest of the pack.
Bumble Boost costs ranges from $2.99 per day to $9.99 per week, to $24.99 per month to $119.99 per lifetime account.
What is Bumble Beeline?
The beeline is a feature that Bumble has that allows you to view who has already liked you. These people are hidden unless you pay. Many people only like people in this queue which can be efficient for some folks but you will unlikely match with people utilizing the same strategy.
What is Bumble Spotlight?
Bumble spotlight is a premium feature in which your profile is shown to the top of the stack enabling you to be seen by more people.
Bumble Photo Guidelines
Most dating apps and sites follow the same technical requirements for dating profile photos. With that said, Bumble has a more stringent set of photo guidelines more so than most other dating apps including no photos in underwear, bikinis, topless mirror/bathroom selfies, no guns and more. You are read the full list here: https://bumble.com/en-us/guidelines
How To Use Bumble Video Chat and Voice Line
After matching, the woman can initiate a call or video using the icons in the upper right of the screen. Men can do so as well but only after the woman makes the first move.
This feature allows users to re-engage an expired match. Most matches that expire are not meant to be. Very rarely do people have a legitimate excuse not to message someone. At the very least a quick note explaining that you are busy, had a tragedy etc. is provided. With that said, this features preys on insecurity of users – what if (s)he ran out of time? If someone is on your mind and of strong interest, that person will find a way to convey this.
What is Bumble Travel Mode?
It is a premium feature that allows users to change their location up to 7 days for 5 coins (in house currency)
For additional tips on all things Bumble including help with photo order, prompts, answers to prompts, first messages and more, read this: https://eddie-hernandez.com/category/dating-apps/bumble/
What is Bumble Snooze?
It is a pause feature that allows users to temporarily hide their profile and pause the app from showing profile to new people. How to activate it here:
What Does Bumble Deleted Member Means?
Whenever someone deletes their profile and uninstalls the app you will see a message near the top of the conversation. There is no way to message the person anymore. It’s likely they met someone else, got tired of the app, or is taking a pause.
Does Bumble Have Read Receipts?
No, there is no read receipt functions on this app.
Bumble Desktop Mode aka Bumble Web
Older dating sites like Match.com and OkCupid were web based dating sites first when they first launched but newer apps like Hinge and Coffee Meets Bagel are mobile app only dating sites. Bumble took an unusual step to create a desktop version of the app which is a great idea if you want to get off the small screen and review details and photos more carefully.
Deleting + Recreating Profiles and Shadowbans
Bumble states there is no thing as a shadow ban but does doesn’t rule ou that swiping too much and getting in front of users repeatedly can cause more people to swipe left on your more often resulting in a lower perceived attractiveness on your profile. Read more here: https://bumble.com/en/help/am-i-penalized-for-deleting-profile
Bumble Private Detector, Banned Accounts
This feature from Bumble is an algorithm that scans photos for lewd photos i.e. Dick Pic Inspector. Possible photos will come with a warning ask you to view possible photos that have been detected. You can delete the photo and block the user as well. Those found to have send such photos will be banned fro the app (available on iOS only as of May 2020).
About Eddie Hernandez
Eddie Hernandez is a professional photographer specializing in natural, candid online dating photos. Featured in the SFGate, ABC7News, East Bay Express, Salon; contributor to Good Men Project, Plenty Of Fish and Meddle. In addition to photos, he provides guidance around app choice, bio optimization, messaging techniques, wardrobe advice and date ideas. https://eddie-hernandez.com/contact/
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