Why You Should Not Use Facebook, LinkedIn and Social Media Photos On Your Dating Profile.
I have analyzed thousands of profiles over the years and I am still quite amazed at how many people in 2020 still use LinkedIn, Facebook, Instagram and social media photos for their dating profiles. Many dating apps have simplified the registration process to create dating profiles and this convenience often goes overlooked by those who don’t pause and realize what the implications are of using certain photos.
Public Accounts & Safety
There are a number of privacy and safety reasons to not use such photos. Having a public photos whether on LinkedIn, website, press or public social media profiles (Twitter, Facebook and Instagram) makes it easier for folks to find your profiles online, use your photos for creating dating profiles or damage you online reputation.
Many people don’t even realize their photos have been used on dating apps until either their friends, colleagues or family members tell them. Scammers constantly browse public profiles and use photos to create dating profiles to lure potential victims (extortion, blackmail, money wiring, love-bombing and more).
Read this post on online dating safety: https://eddie-hernandez.com/online-dating-safety-tips/
Instances like this can cause extreme amounts of embarrassment and effort to identify and remove content online and even then there is no guarantee it cannot happen again. Your best bet is too hide your social media profiles so people can’t find you, steal your photos, or now your whereabouts.
Pro-tip: Reverse image search is one way to see where your photos appear online.
LinkedIn and Professional Profile Information
Aside from the safety angles, LinkedIn photos are typically photoshopped, altered or embellished and people know this. Potential matches routinely scour websites to get a better idea of what you look like if your dating profile photos are too dark, distant or old. This is especially true if you list your job title, company, real name and school (making it easy to find you online).
If you look materially different from your other photos, this will raise doubt about how you actually appear, how secure you are about your appearance and what other things you might be lying about in your profile. I advise clients to use slightly vague titles to minimize being found online i.e. use industry vs. company name, use function rather than job title. Using a nickname also helps i.e. Kate instead of Kathryn, Bill instead of Will.
Pro-tip: Use authentic, natural but professional photos for your LinkedIn profile. It suggests more confidence in you look and removes doubt about how you might appear in person on a date.
Aside from establishing a consistent look for your suitors, protecting your identity is also important to avoid unwanted contact, messages and packages to your place of business. While it is harder to find your personal home address, business addresses are rather easy to find online. Some stalkers and creeps get off on sending packages to victims at their place of business.
Using photos that can’t be found online and can’t be reverse image searched will minimize possible exposure to your identity and private life. Avoiding using headshots from work, Linkedin, personal websites and social media accounts are one way to protect your identity from being discovered online.
About Eddie Hernandez
Eddie Hernandez is a professional photographer specializing in natural, candid online dating photos. Featured in the SFGate, ABC7News, East Bay Express, Salon; contributor to Good Men Project, Plenty Of Fish and Meddle. In addition to photos, he provides guidance around app choice, bio optimization, messaging techniques, wardrobe advice and date ideas. https://eddie-hernandez.com/contact/
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