Dating Services For Men & Women, San Francisco
Dating Services Bay Area: Photos, Coaching, Profile Critiques, Wardrobe & Lifestyle Consulting
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Dating Services San Francisco Bay Area
If you are looking for someone who oversells themselves, boasts the number of dates they have gone or relies on their looks/charm to sell their services, you should stop reading and look elsewhere.
Friends and family can be biased and unwilling to be brutally honest with you. They have context that strangers don't. I highlight blind spots, unearth biases, find ways to help you meet people organically and help you become more comfortable in your own skin.
I have worked with a variety of individuals over the last 10 years, locally and internationally, men and women, gay, straight and bisexual including:
- Nurses, doctors, therapists, teachers, VC's, founders, tech execs, engineers
- Single parents, widows & divorcees; those new in town, new to dating, few friends
- Women who struggle with getting approached by men they seek, culling through endless likes on apps and screening time-wasters
- Men who struggle with hygiene, lifestyle choices, social skills, date ideas, messaging, hobbies, wardrobe
- Those who have hired other photographers, coaches, consultants, matchmakers with no success
Contact me today to learn more
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Dating Coach For Women
My focus is working with women who are highly educated, those that are working professionals, executives and accomplished career women. The skills needed to save for a home, get into B-School or Law School, get a fancy job or get that promotion are not the same as those needed to succeed with dating.
Whether it's on dating apps or fine-tuning organic ways to be more visible offline and surround yourself with more quality men, we will assess what you have done thus far, highlight blind spots, isolate areas for improvement and make sure you are signaling the appropriate things about yourself.
Read more about my dating coaching for women.
Dating Coach For Men
Having worked most of my adult life with engineers and tech geeks as an analytics and strategy nerd myself, I will do a deep dive into your life to assess hobbies, interests, eye contact, body posture, grooming, hygiene, manners, communication skills as well as vocal intonation, improvising small talk.
Dating is just not about knowing how to dress, what to say but more so how you carry yourself, what makes you different and your ability to sell yourself.
Being successful, tall and in-shape means nothing if your attitude is terrible, you ignore deal-breakers, use pick-up lines or lack social skills. If you are short, person of color, a bit quirky or nerdy, this is for you.
Read about my dating coaching services for men.
Dating Profile Review Service, Critiques
Doing well on dating apps is more than just uploading a few photos and writing a few words. There is lots of self-sabotage on dating apps when it comes to swiping etiquette, app choice, paying for premium services, photo choice, photo order, prompts, bios, captions, liking vs commenting and timing.
We will go over pros and cons of each app, assess which one is best based off gender, lifestyle choices, privacy, demographics and timing.
The goal of these sessions is not necessarily to get more likes or matches, but rather obtain better quality matches, even if it means being more selective and receiving fewer matches. Efficiency will be emphasized to screen out time wasters and incompatible people.
More info on Dating Profile Review Services.
Offline, In Person Dating Coaching
Whether it's analyzing live dates from a distance, helping you to understand where to sit, what to order, how to position yourself, and how to make subtle gestures to get noticed and have men talk to you, my in the field sessions will open up your dating options beyond just apps.
My focus will be on where to go, how to optimize first impressions, how to use better judgment, how to cut off time wasters, how to engage in conversations and how to attract people in public more easily, effectively.
Contact me today to learn more.
Candid, Natural Online Photos For Bumble, Hinge
If you hate taking photos, need new photos or often say you look better in person or on dates, this is for you.
Dating profile photos are more organic, candid and imperfect. While other photographers use generic backgrounds, staged setups and blurred backgrounds that are obviously professional, I take a more natural approach like a friend took photos (but one who knows what he is doing).
Sessions are taking in public spaces that don't draw attention to you or me whether they are bars, hiking trails, lookouts, cafés, restaurants, social events, concerts or photos taken at home and common spaces of residences.
More info on dating app photoshoots.
Dating Services FAQ's, Cost Eddie Hernandez
The prices for my services are customized given that I treat everyone uniquely and create solutions based on individual needs. Unlike other photographers and dating coaches who use same locations & background for photos, standardize bootcamps for all clients or treat everyone's problems the same, I want to hear your mindset, past efforts, strategies, anecdotes, patterns, frustrations and more.
I don't require contracts and or excessive services you don't need but I will let you know if services you request are inadequate (doesn't help me or you to sell you services that won't help you).
Unlike other dating photographers, my photos are for you only. I don't publicize photos on my site or elsewhere. Your photos are private.
I work with clients mostly in the San Francisco Bay Area and surrounding areas, including Sacramento, Monterey and more but a significant portion of my clients come from major cities like Los Angeles, New York, Chicago, London, Sydney. Folks either hire me for remote services, fly to me for in-person services or sign up to get notified of my upcoming travels.
I work with men and women, gay and straight, divorced, widowed and those with limited dating experience, new to dating or have kids. Usually folks are mid-20s to early 70s in age. Ask around, chances are someone you know has worked with me in the past.
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About Eddie Hernandez
Eddie Hernandez is a dating coach for men & women, based in San Francisco, as seen in the NYT & Bumble). He helps men and women with dating profiles, offline coaching (wardrobe, hobbies, social skills, ID'ing red flags, cutting off time-wasters) and appearance (wardrobe & more).
Dating Services San Francisco For Men, Women; Dating Services For Professionals